Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Best Friends Forever?

You need to know something about me, I have a Male Ego.
I try not to let it get in the way but when you've grown up around 7 brothers, its kind of difficult.
Whatever.

Anyways, I am about to start ranting now. Run away while you still can.

I have this friend, lets call her Scooter.

So Scooter and I are kind of BFF's and all was well untill the day Scooter went to....Scooter Land.
So Scooter drags me on a sunday for shopping. JOY. I go and all I get to do is hold what she chooses. Its okay, I hate shopping, atleast I was useful. Anyways after we're done shopping she drags me to the shop above to look at shoes and I still don't protest. On our way back from Shoe Shopping, Scooter decides that she doesn't like my dressing. I still keep quiet.. well that and I had Maiden blasting on the other ear and I was tuned out anyways but then I came back down crashing when I realised that the person she was talking about for about the last 20 minutes was ME.
You know how warm and fuzzy I felt right?
So I told her to shut up. Very unlike me because I hate confrontations. I prefer to just pretend like that thing never happened and move on.

Bruise One for Ego.

After she came back, we did just that. Pretend that it never happend. All was well untill I had that weird thing that I don't want to talk to anyone except Rahil, Juhi and Shikhar.
I think that it kind of hurt her..but I needed change. Anyways then this entire love triangle thing happened that involved one of her relatives and one my very very good friends. I stayed out of it. But I call her up and she starts accusing me of telling the guy that the other girl likes him better than her relative. And I would do that because I know the other girl right?
What hurt me was that she believed those people who don't even know me instead of just asking me upfront.

Bruise Two for Ego.

Then, last night she sent me a message and we had the "talk" and it was alright in the morning. After school I had to go meet a friend with R&S and she did her own thing so I call her up in the evening and she doesn't answer. Then I get a missed call so I call her back and this is how the conversation went:

Scooter: God, how many times are you calling me?
Me: I just called you once.
Scooter: Well, I got a missed call before this one and a message and now you're calling me again.
Me: I just called you once and the other two can't be possible because my phone died on the way to school. Unless you're hallucinating.
Scooter: Blah Blah Blah...
Me: Fuck this. I'll talk you whenever.

Bruise Three for Ego.

3 comments:

S said...

Chin up - at the end of the day, people have conflicts - but they always work out. And I love you. Furthermore, I've come to realise that everyone possesses these "male egos" that we talk about - it just takes a lot to bring them out in some cases. But they're there - always.

[Fishbone] said...

lol, i love you too
yeah.. its k
i am so over
"no offense"...its overrated

a said...

Well.. diz was posted ages ago but jz saw it,
wanted to tell u im really sorry for d whole mess dat I created :( n how u got involved in it whn it wasnt ur fault...
also wanted to thx u 4 alwayz being der whn eva i needed u... sry couldn do so whn u did... :'(

n neva really told u diz.. one reason y i really miss 9th n 10th grade is dat...v were really good frndz dat time :) n d oder is obv wings ;)

luv ya tc :)